Saint Vincent De Paul

In the words of St. Vincent de Paul, “The office of simplicity is to make us go straight to God, without regard to human respect or our own interests. It leads us to tell things candidly and just as they exist in our hearts. It leads us to act simply, without admixture of hypocrisy and artifice…and, finally, keeps us at a distance from every kind of deceit and double-dealing.”

While trying to rid my life of slander and gossip, I’ve come to understand that venting anger through slander isn’t justified, regardless of the hurt I may feel. Certain matters are better handled discreetly. St. Vincent’s wisdom on prudence resonates: “Prudence is indeed necessary, that we may be circumspect in our actions and know how to adapt ourselves to the dispositions of others.”

Humility, another virtue exemplified by St. Vincent, involves acknowledging our dependence on God and recognizing that all good things come from Him. It encourages reaching out to the less fortunate, a lesson I’ve learned over time. I recall my struggle with pride during college, thinking I was superior to others, only to realize later that my talents were divine gifts. A chance encounter with a cheerful and humble elevator operator named Harsh at a mall in Pune was a lesson in humility. His genuine demeanor and warmth reminded me of the impact a kind word and genuine appreciation can have on those we might consider “beneath us”.

Mortification, or self-control, is key in managing our passions and pleasures, both external and internal. Overindulgence, as I’ve learned from my voracious reading habits, requires discipline and self-regulation. Through prayer and the guidance of the Holy Spirit, I’ve cultivated better self-control and redirected my reading habits towards more productive pursuits. Meekness, exemplified by St. Vincent, helps us manage anger constructively, fostering forgiveness and understanding. St. Vincent’s prayer for a “kindly and benign spirit” echoes the change I’ve experienced in my temper and impulsiveness. With the Holy Spirit’s guidance, I’ve learned to let go of grudges and manage anger positively.

Zeal, the passion to serve God and others, is a defining virtue for Christians. St. Vincent’s fervent love shines through his words: “Let us beg God to enkindle in our hearts a desire to serve him!” Since joining the community, I’ve actively participated in various programs and embraced responsibilities like being a Household Servant, aspiring to follow St. Vincent’s path of dedication.

In summary, St. Vincent de Paul’s virtues – simplicity, humility, mortification, meekness, and zeal – serve as beacons of guidance. These principles encourage us to lead lives of honesty, kindness, and genuine service to God and our fellow humans.